Greg,
The only way I could see you being able to 'not' dupe detect within that data is to make it a single row.
If you did that, you could do a cross field compare for the various address fields and on the phone number field as well. There are some KBAs talking about cross field matching if you want to read about them: 1323656 - What is 'All selected fields in other records'? - Data Services and 1325375 - What is 'the same field to other records'? - Data Services.
Thanks,
Paula